Monday, May 5, 2008

RELATIONSHIP ANALYSIS


RELATIONSHIP ANALYSIS


Finding or Understanding a Partner using Numerology
The concept of using numerology to estimate the potential for long-term compatibility with a prospective partner is a surefire way increases your odds for a good relationship. Looking to numerology is also a good way to address problems in an existing relationship, and gain new understanding.


That said, I want to make it clear that while some numbers seem to blend together easily and with little friction, and other numbers seem to be rubbing against the grain for you, there are no absolutes or ideals that you should be seeking. You can use the guide below to quickly compare two individual Life path numbers and the Destiny or Expression numbers, or any of the other numbers in the profile for that matter. While some may wish to carry this further and compare other factors in the respective profiles, and many numerologists do, my sense is that these two important numbers should be the focus of your investigation.


The most important number in your comparison is the Life path number. If you haven't learned how to calculate and understand the meaning of the Life path, click here to go to the page on this topic. It is important to build a relationship with a partner having a Life path compatible with your own because for both individuals, the Life path number shows the natural inclinations at birth and the set of traits that will always be present in you and in your prospective partner. You must act on these traits to attain a sense of self-worth and happiness. For example, the Life path 3 is one that emphasizes expression, sociability, and creativity as the natural mode of activity for its native. When these traits are highly valued by the Life path of the partner, such traits are readily supported and living together as a couple is facilitated. When these numbers are not in harmony, some degree of compromise will be necessary for both individuals to maintain a comfort zone and sense of general happiness.


Next in importance is the Expression or Destiny number which is the number calculated from your full birth name. If you are not familiar which converting your name to a single digit number, please revisit the page on this topic. The Expression number defines the direction in life and what you must strive to attain.

Numbers that produce easy compatibility or seem to be a natural fit.


Numbers that are usually compatible and find it easy to get along.


Numbers that can go either way - or may be neutral


Numbers that are often a bit of a challenge and require much compromise.


While this gives an instance glance at the degree of compatibility or challenge in the relationship, it is probably wise to take this a step further and attempt to gain some insight into the actual blending, or failing to blend, of the numbers. The following notes discuss the possibilities of these encounters:


1 and 1:

Two people with a strong desire to lead, and, two people who want very much to be independent. Two 1s in a relationship understand and accept each other perhaps better than any other number can understand the 1. This is a relationship not without pitfalls as the match can get dicey when they start to compete. But for the most part, it is a good one filled with excitement and activity.


1 and 2:

Two very different people who do well if they remember their roles. The 1 is best equipped to be the breadwinner, and the 2 will be the one to feather the nest and keep the warmth of romance alive and well. The 1 must avoid being distracted and never forget how important attention is for the 2 partner.


1 and 3:

This is a very lively couple that seem to shamelessly enjoy life and each other. The 3 is good at acknowledging the 1 accomplishments and stroking the ego. The 3 provides the ideas and the 1 provides the push, so this couple can cover a lot of ground. Yet they have to be careful about what they say since neither handles criticism very well.


1 and 4:

4's desire for control is a tough sell on the 1. The 1's need to make things happen now, frustrates the meticulous 4. Opposites in many ways, these two should not expect easy compromise. If they ever can accept one another for who they are, their respective strengths will make a solid relationship.


1 and 5:

This is a very compatible combination as both of these numbers are ones that like to have a lot of freedom in a relationship. The drive for independence is paramount for each. They may be so busy with their own "thing" that time together is limited, very special, and often exciting. As you might expect, the most serious threat is when either tries to impose his or her will on the other.


1 and 6:

This is a power struggle waiting to happen. The 6 wants and needs to a caretaker. The 1 has an absolute need to be independent and unrestrained. This can be a successful pairing only if they can work past this roadblock, and give each other the support they both need.


1 and 7:

These are very different energies but ones that somehow blend nicely. The 7 provides wise insights while the 1 becomes a needed motivator. The key is to understand the tendencies; the 1 can get too busy with the outer world to always be there for the 7, and the 7 can be too into their own world to be there for the 1. Neither should take this absence personally.


1 and 8:

From a business standpoint, this is a good match. But from the love angle, it is questionable at best. Both are so assertive and demanding, that expectations can far exceed reality. Negative feedback from either will be deadly in this pairing. Success depends on a open and mutual willingness to compromise and limit demands.


1 and 9:

The 9 brings a selflessness to the relationship which allows the 1 to operate in an environment that is understanding and smooth flowing. The 1 will have to learn to share the partner who is inclined to extend a giving nature outside the home. If there is trouble in this partnership it will generally come from the 9s difficulty tolerating the 1's assertive and individualistic behavior.


2 and 2:

A great match of two souls both needing to give and receive love. Experts at mediation, they have little difficulty finding common ground on just about any issue that arises. The only word of caution for this pairing is that they must each remember how thin their own skin is so as to not cause verbal injury to the other. Generally this is not a problem because of their polite manner and mutual respect.


2 and 3:

These are potentially very good partners because of the good humor and good chemistry. The 3 is always "on stage" and full of life and social energy, while the 2 is happy as a lark standing back and enjoying the show. The 2 balances the needs of the 3 by providing a soothing and calming influence.


2 and 4:

This is a steady pairing resulting in comfort personified. When it comes to home and family, the 4 is the ultimate builder and provider. Security is 4's forte. Nothing is more appealing to the 2 than home, hearth, and family. The only difficulty likely here is one of perception. The 2 needs love to be shown and always physically apparent, and the 4 is sometimes not so demonstrative.


2 and 5:

The 2 needs family and an ever present sense of being loved, and the 5 need total freedom to pursue whatever avenues appear on the horizon. This is one where the chemistry has to be very strong in order for the two very different souls to forge some significant compromises. Obviously, these two can provide a lot that may otherwise be missing, but it won't be an easy road.


2 and 6:

This is another good love match. The 6 ranks first in family while the 2 tops the chart in love and caring. Still the pair needs to watch their Ps and Qs as the 6 has a surprising need for approbation, and 2's thin skin can suffer with the direct and demanding approach that sometimes characterizes the 6. Considerations of feelings are a must.


2 and 7:

This is a couple that has some strong and dissimilar needs. The 2's need for demonstrative love and 7's need for a good deal of space and solitude make this a pairing that will work only if both can stay tuned in to the other's needs and be willing to cater to them at least to some degree. Generally the 2 will have to find something to occupy much of the time that would otherwise be devoted to the mate.


2 and 8:

A pairing that usually works very well because it is likely that each has a clear vision of their role. The 8 is about the outer world of business and attainment, taking care of the financial needs of the family. The 2 takes care of the family and is there to pamper the ego of their partner. A pitfall in this relationship can occur if the 8 fails to sufficiently value the labors of the 2. Generally, this is the classic traditional family model, or in the case of the male 2, female 8, the classic male/female role reversal.


2 and 9:

These two can have a wonderful relationship or it can be not so wonderful. The 2 needs constant attention, and certainly the 9 is a caring individual. But the care they naturally possess is spread to all humanity and often it is not focused enough at home. The 9 is a natural leader and the 2 is a natural follower, so there is always hope.


The 9 needs to remember that the 2 hates to be alone, and the 2 needs to be forewarned that the 9's love will only stretch so far.


3 and 3:

Wild and interesting describes this pairing of two with so much creative and social potential. No one has more fun that a pair of 3s who understand and support one another. The question may become who is going to take care of the mundane. The pitfall of this relationship comes when neither partner can hold on to reins of practical everyday details.


3 and 4:

When the spontaneous 3 pairs with the micro-manager 4, something has to give, and often it won't. The 3 will take each day as it comes while the 4 has to have a definite plan far into the future. If the two can ever figure out how to meet in the middle, they will do a good job of balancing each other's shortcomings. The 3 will show the 4 how to have fun while the 4 can give the 3 a needed sense of security.


3 and 5:

This is one of the most social combination you will find. The two will generally find each other very interesting and their ability to entertain will be never ending. Social opportunities, travel, and numerous activities promise this relationship won't get boring. Both are creative by nature, yet neither excels at managing the budget, so everyday affairs can cause problems sometimes.


3 and 6:

This is a natural combination that works well in most cases. The 3 is full of enthusiasm and ideas, and the 6 provides the stability, support, and encouragement that often makes this combination an idea team in many ways. The chemistry here is very strong and durable. The challenge of this combination can come in the form of 6 jealous feelings toward the oft flirtatious 3. Usually it will be the 6 who will have to learn to deal with an inborn trait.


3 and 7:

These two are about as different as people get. The 3 wants to be constantly on the go with a swirl of activity, travel, and social contact that the 7 will find intolerable. The 7 needs solitude and can only take so much human contact before retreating to their preferred peace and quiet. Confrontation in this pairing never works well, and it will be up to both to understand the long-term need for compromise. The key to success here is open dialog regarding wants, needs, and goals.


3 and 8:

This is a combination that requires extra effort mostly because of the departure of needs. The 8 needs goals and authority to feel happy, and efforts focused here leave the 3 without needed attention and stimulation. The secret to success in this combination, if there is one, is frequent getaways; periods when the 3 gets the 8 away from business and relaxed enough to have some fun. There isn't much frivolity in the 8, and this can sometimes be a tough sale.


3 and 9:

This is a wonderful combination of two people who are apt to keep each other endlessly engaged in a variety of creative ways. Both like to be on stage and both are interested in people. They care about people and the 9 can be generous to a fault. The 9 is the teacher and the 3 is the ever eager student. Sharing experience is a never ending joy of this pairing. The problem the couple faces is settling down, feathering a nest, and keeping the bills paid. Even after they are settled and set, romantic adventures will always be important.


4 and 4:

The keywords for this combination are solid and secure. For individuals who need to know that the bills are paid and future is totally secure, who better to fill this need than another 4. These two will share goals that they work for and nearly always achieve. Success is measured by a sense that growth is continual and this includes love and romance. The down side of this pairing, if there is one, is the sense that nothing is ever completely okay. It's hard to relax , be spontaneous, and enjoy the moment and each other. Nonetheless, there are few relationships destined to be more stable than this one.


4 and 5:

Challenge. The 4 and the 5 have different temperaments and different ways of communicating. The 4 is very direct to the point, while the 5 will be more diplomatic and indirect. 4s don't like change, and 5s have to have it. To find success, this couple will need to respect the difference and pay attention to what is said and what is inferred.


4 and 6:

A comfortable match of traditional types, this pairing has promise from the very beginning. Chances are the 6 will want to take the lead in this relationship, and a secure home and family are all that is needed to produce a satisfying long-term situation. The challenge of this relationship is compromise. Neither is very good at this.


4 and 7:

This is a relationship that has a serious tone about it and may be driven by a mutual need for security. It is loyal and devoted, even it it may lack the fire and passion of some combinations. The 4 is a natural provider of rock solid security and home values. The 7 provides a quest for continued mental development and adventure. The combination makes life both secure and yet more interesting for both.


4 and 8:

This is a comfortable pairing because both parties understand hard work and have a good head for business and getting ahead in the world. The 4 is the cautious planner, while the 8 has a more grandiose approach to endeavors. The only problem probably can be one of finding the time to spend together in a quest for romance. Yet this is a couple that knows how to build for the future and develop a very secure relationship.


4 and 9:

These two are so very different that successful pairings are rare. The 9 is far more social and fosters deep humanitarian instincts. The 4 is focused on the basics of building a secure and solid immediate world. To succeed in a relationship requires both to be aware of how different their approaches are, and somehow muster a willingness to accept. The 4 will certainly appreciate the 9's knowledge and intelligence, and the 9 must likewise value the 4's ruthless consistency.


5 and 5:

A pair of 5s is a very compatible couple who prize their freedom to be different and adventuresome. Few others will be as open to the constant flow of new ideas and changes so common in the 5. In this relationship, partners easily anticipate what the other is thinking and where they are going. And they also have a sense for staying out of the way and accepting the freewheeling lifestyle. 5s choosing to support one another can do just about anything. The difficulty with this pairing is focus, and there may be a problem handling the mundane day-to-day affairs.


5 and 6:

This is a combination requiring great compromise since the 5 thrives on freedom and space, and the 6 is noted for exerting control and nurturing supervision. The 6 wants complete commitment, and the 5 is looking for adventure and new horizons. In a relationship, they would probably be good for each other if they could find a way to meet somewhere near the middle. They must avoid any tendency to become entrenched in positions that just won't work for the other.


5 and 7:

This is a relationship which is more or less free of rules and procedures. In some ways, these two are much alike and the relationship is generally very compatible. The 7 values the time to be alone and enjoy the world of study and reflection in their private space. At the same time, the 5 has plenty going on and appreciates not having demands for attention being the paramount feature of the relationship. Yet these two can get together and find a never ending stream of mutual interests to discuss and explore.


5 and 8:

This is a relationship between two individuals who don't always follow the rules, and they might find themselves locking horns on the rules of a relationship. The 8 is used to being the boss and dominating most situations. The 5 seeks freedom from any restraints. The 8 is focused on success, particularly in a financial sense, and the 5 doesn't even want to think about money. It will take careful planning and compromise to make this relationship work.


5 and 9:

This is a relationship between two who may find it hard to work the relationship into their busy schedules. Both of these numbers represent people who are apt to be in a constant state of transition and change. In this regard they have much in common and will generally find each other very interesting, for the moment or for the long haul. The compassion of the 9 and progressive thinking of the 5 seems to blend well. Establishing a commitment to security is a must.


6 and 6:

This is a combination charged with romance, but in essence it is rather practical by nature. Home and family is second nature here, and these will be the top priorities for sure. This is a very compatible pairing. The 6 knows what's best for their partner, so they do a good job of taking care of each other, and a family is a must. Yet the 6 by its nature wants the whole family under his/her thumb, so the challenge may be in agreeing who is going to be charge. The circumstances of the relationship will usually be able to sort this out.


6 and 7:

These are two very different people with very different ideas about a relationship. The 6 is openly interested in a permanent situation complete with a stable home and family. With the secretive 7, it is hard to tell what the goal might be, and only time will tell. Despite the sexual attraction that may be present, this is a very challenged combination. The 6 is too controlling, and the 7 just isn't to be closely managed. The compromises required in this relationship really bend and manipulate the natural traits of both numbers.


6 and 8:

This is a very positive and compatible relationship of two who are usually open and positive in most that they do. This is a couple with big ideas, and their ideas are usually brought to reality in grand fashion. The home will provide plenty of space for family, work, and frequent entertaining of their many friends. A down side to the relationship can occur if the possessive 6 has to compete too much with the business interests of the 8. Likewise, the 8 will be frustrated when the demands at home cramp the executive lifestyle and obligations.


6 and 9:

This is generally a very compatible relationship prospect as the 9 is one of the few numbers to gain 6's utmost respect. In a family situation, the 6 is unsurpassed as a manager, and the 9 is never reticent in heaping praise in recognition. This often creates a mutual admiration environment that provides a happy home for both partners. The 6 helps the 9 stay focused on details and common sense issues, while the 9 broadens the 6's outlook and sense of the world at large. The expansiveness of this pairing may suggest the need to keep a close eye on the budget.


7 and 7:

This is one situation in which no one understands the eccentricities of a 7 nearly as well as another 7. Thus, this is a very compatible pairing. With the right attitude, this couple will find the interest to freely explore the world together, or spend their days in happy solitude together. Chances are you are on the same psychic wavelength, so you will surely catch the signals as they flash by. The downside of this pairing is the tendency to not communicate, so an effort may have to be made to keep the lines open and operating.


7 and 8:

This is a combination that seems to work well physically, but one which is plagued with problems on the emotional level. The 8 has a tendency to dominate and control, and the 7 is a very private person prone to resist attempts to exert authority. The power of both numbers can result in frequent verbal battles. Yet there is a stability factor in the pairing that makes long-term success a possibility if accommodations can be reached.


7 and 9:

This couple is anything but neutral in their affiliation. They are listed neutral because the relationship can go either way depending largely on spiritual beliefs. Both have strong spiritual inclinations and deeply held positions. However, these views of the spiritual and God often divide along rigidly held lines. In such cases, compromise is usually not an option. When the spiritual positions are in harmony, this can be a very compatible combination.


8 and 8:

This pairing might be known as the "Dynamic Duo" as this is a combination that is full of passion and romance. Indeed, this pairing is a strong and enduring match- up. Yet both partners will be easily distracted by the events in their life as goals and professional demands often supersede romantic possibilities. Solid as the relationship probably is, the couple may have a hard time communicating the depth of feeling in either word or deed. Guard against competing with one another, and getting caught up in schedules and the demands of work. Make time for each other and always focus on being equal partners.


8 and 9:

This is a challenging combination in which two highly motivated individuals - motivated in very different ways - find it hard to accept the ways of the other. In general the goals of the 9 are lofty and may have a humanitarian bend, while the 8 seeks the reward that comes with development of leadership and material success. To have much of a chance, the 8 will have to appreciate the lessons that can be learned from their generous partner. When they are able to work as a team, this is a powerful and often inspirational pair. Too often, however, the combination fails to click.


9 and 9:

This relationship has much promise as it usually engages two charismatic types possessing much intellectual stimulation. The nature of the 9 is selfless, so this combination usually faces few challenges; each wanting to please the other and always be there for each other. A relationship offering the opportunity to grow, learn, and serve, this is often an inspiring combination.


THE BIRTHDAY NUMBER


The birthday is a supporting influence added to the Life Path. Think of it as a modifier to the Life Path. These are traits that you brought into this life much as with the more important and dominating traits shown by the Life Path. Here is your birthday and the modifying traits shown by it:

1
The number 1 energy suggests that there is perhaps more executive ability and leadership qualities in your makeup than your life path may have indicated. A birthday on day 1 of any month gives a measure of will power and self-confidence, and very often a rather original approach. This 1 energy may diminish your ability and desire to handle details, preferring instead to paint with a broad brush. You may be sensitive, but your feelings stay rather repressed.

2
Your birth on the 2nd day of the month adds a degree of emotion, sensitivity, and intuition to your reading. The 2 is a very social number allowing you to make friends easily and quickly. Yet you are apt to have a rather nervous air in the company of a large group. You have a warmhearted nature and emotional understanding that constantly seeks affection. You are more prone than most to become depressed and moody, as emotions can turn inward and cause anxiety and mental turmoil. It can be hard for you to bounce back to reality when depression sets in.

3
Being born on the 3rd day of the month is likely to add a good bit of vitality to your life. The energy of 3 allows you bounce back rapidly from setbacks, physical or mental. There is a restlessness in your nature, but you seem to be able to portray an easygoing, sometimes "couldn't care less" attitude. You have a natural ability to express yourself in public, and you always make a very good impression. Good with words, you excel in writing, speaking, and possibly singing. You are energetic and always a good conversationalist. You have a keen imagination, but you tend to scatter your energies and become involved with too may superficial matters. You are affectionate and loving, but sometimes too sensitive. You are subject to rapid ups and downs.

4
Being born on the 4th day of the month should help make you a better manager and organizer. You may be more responsible and self-disciplined than your Life Path suggested because of this date. Sincere and honest, you are a serious and hard working individual. Limitations may be imposed by this 4 energy, especially if this number is active elsewhere in your reading. Your feelings are likely to seem somewhat repressed at times. The number 4 has something of an inhibiting effect on your ability to show and express affections, as feeling are very closely regulated and controlled. Even if it by itself, you are apt to be much more practical, rational, and conscious of details. There is a good deal of rigidity and stubbornness associated with the number 4.

5
With a birthday on the 5th of the month you are inclined to work well with people and enjoy them. You are talented and versatile, very good at presenting ideas. You may have a tendency to get itchy feet at times and need change and travel. You tend to be very progressive, imaginative and adaptable. Your mind is quick, clever and analytical. A restlessness in your nature may make you a bit impatient and easily bored with routine. You may have a tendency to shirk responsibility.

6
A birthday on the 6th of the month adds a tone of responsibility, helpfulness, and understanding to your natural inclinations. Those born on the sixth are more apt to be open and honest with everyone, and more caring about family and friends, too. This is a number associated with responsibility and caring, and no matter what your life path may be, this birthday lends a degree of concern for others.

7
Born on the 7th day of month gives you a tendency to be something of a perfectionist and makes you more individualistic in many ways. Your mind is good at deep mental analysis and complicated reasoning. You are very psychic and sensitive, and you should usually follow your hunches. You may not take orders too well, so you may want to work alone or in a situation where you can be the boss. This birthday gives a tendency to be somewhat self-centered and a little stubborn.

8
Born on the 8th day of the month, you have a special gift for business, as you can conceive and plan on a grand scale. You have good executive skills and you're a good judge of values. You should try to own your own business, because you have such a strong desire to be in control. You are generally reliable when it comes to handling money; you can be trusted in this regard. Idealistic by nature, you are never too busy to spend some time on worthwhile causes, especially if managerial support is needed. There is much potential for material success associated with this number.

9
Your birth on the 9th day of the month adds a tone of idealism and humanitarianism to your nature. You become one who can work easily with people because you are broadminded, tolerant and generous. You are ever sensitive to others' needs and feelings, and even if the other numbers in your core makeup don't show it, you are very sympathetic and compassionate. Your feeling run deep and you often find yourself in dramatically charged situations. This 9 energy always tends to give more that it gets.

10
Your birth on the 10th day of the month adds a tone of independence and extra energy to your Life Path. The number 1 energy suggest more executive ability and leadership qualities than you path may have indicated. A birthday on the 10th of any month gives greater will power and self-confidence, and very often a rather original approach. This 1 energy may diminish your ability and desire to handle details, preferring instead to paint with a broad brush. You are sensitive, but your feeling stay somewhat repressed. You have a compelling manner that can be dominating in many situations.

11
Your birth on the 11th day of the month makes you something of a dreamer and an idealist. You work well with people because you know how to use persuasion rather than force. There is a strong spiritual side to your nature, and you may have intuitive qualities inherent in your make up, too. You are very aware and sensitive, though often temperamental. Although you have a good mind and you are very analytical, you may not be comfortable in the business world. You are definitely creative and this influence tends to make you more of a dreamer than a doer.

12
Being born on the 12th day of the month (3 energy) is likely to add a good bit of vitality to your life. The energy of 3 allows you bounce back rapidly from setbacks, physical or mental. There is restlessness in your nature, but you seem to be able to portray an easygoing, sometimes "couldn't care less" attitude. You have a natural ability to express yourself in public, and you always make a very good impression. Good with words, you excel in writing, speaking, and possibly singing. You are energetic and always a good conversationalist. You have a keen imagination, but you tend to scatter your energies and become involved with too may superficial matters. Your mind is practical and rational despite this tendency to jump about. You are affectionate and loving, but very sensitive. You are subject to rapid ups and downs.

13
Being born on the 13th day of the month should help make you a better manager and organizer, but it may also give you a tendency to dominate people a bit. You may be more responsible and self-disciplined than your Life Path suggested because of this date. Sincere and honest, you are a serious, hard working individual. Limitations may be imposed by this 4 energy, especially if there is additional indications the number elsewhere in your number. Your feeling are likely to seem somewhat repressed at times. Even if it by itself, you are apt to be much more practical, rational, and conscious of details. Your intolerance and insistence on complete accuracy can be irritating to some.

14
With a birthday on the 14th of the month (5 energy) you are inclined to work well with people and enjoy them. You are talented and versatile, very good at presenting ideas, and you are also very good at organization and systematizing. You may have a tendency to get itchy feet at times and need change and travel. You tend to be very progressive, imaginative and adaptable. Your mind is quick, clever and analytical. A restlessness in your nature may make you a bit impatient and easily bored with routine, and rebel against it. You have a tendency to shirk responsibility.

15
With a birthday on the 15th of any month, you are apt to have really strong attachments to home, family and domestic scene. The 1 and 5 equaling 6, provide the sort of energy that makes you an excellent parent or teacher. You are very responsible and capable. This is an attractive and an attracting influence. You like harmony in your environment and strive to maintain it. You tend to learn by observation rather than study and research. You may like to cook, but you probably don't follow recipes. This number shows artistic leanings and would certainly support an talents that may be otherwise in your makeup. You're a very generous and giving person, but perhaps a bit stubborn in ways.

16
Your birth on the 16th day of the month gives a sense of loneliness and generally the desire to work alone. You are relatively inflexible, and insist on your being independent. You need a good deal of time to rest and to meditate. You are introspective and a little stubborn. Because of this, it may not be easy for you to maintain permanent relationships, but you probably will as you are very much into home and family. This birth day inclines to interests in the technical, the scientific, and to the religious or the unknown realm of spiritual explorations. The date gives you a tendency to seek unusual approaches and makes your style seem a little different and unique to those around you. Your intuition is aided by the day of your birth, but most of your actions are bedded in logic, responsibility, and the rational approach. You may be emotional, but have a hard time expressing these emotions. Because of this, there may be some difficulty in giving or receiving affection.

17
Your birth on the 17th day of the month suggests that you are very fortune financially, because this date is very good for business interest and a solid business sense. Although you are probably very honest and ethical, this birthday enables you to be shrewd and successful in the world of business and commercial enterprise. You have excellent organizational, managerial, and administrative capabilities enabling you to handle large projects and significant amounts of money with relative ease. You are ambitious and highly goal-oriented, although you may be better at starting projects than you are at finishing them. A sensitivity in your nature, often repressed below the surface of awareness, makes it hard to give or receive affection.

18
Your birthday on the 18th day of the month suggests than you are one who can work well with a group, but still remain someone who needs to maintain individual identity. There is a humanistic or philanthropic approach to business circumstances in which you find yourself. You may have good executive abilities, as you are very much the organizer and administrator. You are broad-minded, tolerant and generous; a compassionate person that can inspire others with imaginative ideas. Some of your feelings may be expressed, but even more of them are apt to be repressed. There is a lot of drama in your personality and in the way you express yourself to others. Oddly enough, you don't expect as much in return as you give.

19
Your birth on the 19th day of the month adds a tone of independence and extra energy to your life path. But at the same time, it poses a number of obstacles to overcome before you are able to be as independent as you would like. The number 1 energy suggests more executive ability and leadership qualities than your path may have indicated. A birthday on the 19th of any month gives greater will power and self-confidence, and very often a rather original approach; but with this, a somewhat self-centered approach to life that may be in conflict with some of the other influences in your life. This 1 energy may diminish your ability and desire to handle details, preferring instead to paint with a broad brush. You are sensitive, but your feeling stay somewhat repressed. You have a compelling manner that can be dominating in many situations. You do not tend to follow convention or take advice very well. Consequently, you tend to learn through experience; sometimes hard experiences. The 19/1 is a loner number and you may experience feelings of being alone even if you are married. You may take on a tendency to be nervous and anger more easily than your Life Path number suggests.

20
Your birth on the 20th day of the month adds a degree of emotion, sensitivity, and intuition to your reading. The 2 energy provided here is very social, allowing you to make friends easily and quickly. Yet you are apt to have a rather nervous air in the company of a large group. You have a warmhearted nature and emotional understanding that constantly seeks affection. You are very prone to become depressed and moody, as emotions can turn inward and cause anxiety and mental turmoil. It can be hard for you to bounce back to reality when depression sets in. When things are going well, you can go just as far the other way and become extremely affectionate.

21
Being born on the 21st day of the month (3 energy) is likely to add a good bit of vitality to your life. The energy of 3 allows you bounce back rapidly from setbacks, physical or mental. There is a restlessness in your nature, but you seem to be able to portray an easygoing, sometimes "couldn't care less" attitude. You have a natural ability to express yourself in public, and you always make a very good impression. Good with words, you excel in writing, speaking, and possibly singing. You are energetic and always a good conversationalist. You have a keen imagination, but you tend to scatter your energies and become involved with too may superficial matters. Your mind is practical and rational despite this tendency to jump about. You are affectionate and loving, but very sensitive. You are subject to rapid ups and downs.

22
While sometimes employing unorthodox approaches, you are capable of handling large scale undertakings, assuming great responsibility, and working long and hard towards their completion. Often, especially in the early part of life, there is rigidity or stubbornness, and a tendency to repress feelings. Idealistic, you work for the greater good with a good deal of inner strength and charisma. An extremely capable organizer, but likely to paint with broad strokes rather than detail. You are very aware and intuitive. You are subject to a good deal of nervous tension.

23
With a birthday on the 23rd of the month (5 energy) you are inclined to work well with people and enjoy them. You are talented and versatile, very good at presenting ideas. You may have a tendency to get itchy feet at times and need change and travel. You tend to be very progressive, imaginative and adaptable. Your mind is quick, clever and analytical. A restlessness in your nature may make you a bit impatient and easily bored with routine. You may have a tendency to shirk responsibility. Very sociable, you make friends easily and you are an excellent traveling companion.

24
Born on the 24th, you have a greater capacity for responsibility and helping others than may have shown in your life path. You may also become the mediator and peacemaker in inharmonious situations. Devoted to family, you tend to manage and protect. This birth date adds to the emotional nature and perhaps to the sensitivities. Affections are important to you; both the giving and the receiving.

25
Your birth on the 25th day of the month (7 energy) modifies your life path by giving you some special interest in technical, scientific, or other complex and often hard to understand subjects. You may become something of a perfectionist and a stickler for details. Your thinking is logical and intuitive, rational and responsible. Your feelings may run deep, but you are not very likely to let them show. This birthday makes you a more private person, more introspective and perhaps more inflexible. In friendships you are very cautious and reserved. You are probably inventive, and given to unique approaches and solutions.

26
Your birth on the 26th day of the month (8 energy) modifies your life path by increasing your capability to function and succeed in the business world. In this environment you have the skills to work very well with others thanks to the 2 and 6 energies combining in this date. There is a marked increase in organizational, managerial, and administrative abilities. You are efficient and handle money very well. Ambitious and energetic, while generally remaining cooperative and adaptable. You are conscientious and not afraid of responsibility. Generally sociable and diplomatic, you tend to use persuasion rather than force. You have a wonderful combination of being good at both the broad strokes and the fine detail; good at starting and continuing. This birthday is practical and realistic, often seeking material satisfaction.

27
Your birth on the 27th day of the month (9 energy) adds a tone of selflessness and humanitarianism to your life path. Certainly, you are one who can work very well with people, but at the same time you need a good bit of time to be by your self to rest and meditate. Regardless of your life path number, there is a very humanistic and philanthropic approach in most of things that you do. This birthday helps you be broadminded, tolerant, generous and very cooperative. You are the type of person who uses persuasion rather than force to achieve your ends. You tend to be very sensitive to others' needs and feelings, and you able to give much in the way of friendship without expecting a lot in return.

28
Your birth on the 28th day of the month (1 energy) adds a tone of independence and extra energy to your Life Path. The number 1 energy suggest more executive ability and leadership qualities than you path may have indicated. A birthday on the 28th of any month gives greater will power and self-confidence, and very often a rather original approach. Unlike much of the other 1 energy, this birthday is one that endow with the ability to start a job and continue on until it is finished. You may prefer to use the broad brush, but you can handle details as well. You are sensitive, but your feeling stay somewhat repressed. You have a compelling manner that can be dominating in many situations.

29
Your birthday on the 29th adds a tone of idealism to your nature. You are imaginative and creative, but rather uncomfortable in the business world. You are very aware and sensitive, with outstanding intuitive skills and analytical abilities. The 29 reduces to 11, one of the master numbers which often produces much nervous tension. This is the birthday of the dreamer rather than the doer. You do, however, work very well with people.

30
Your birthday on the 30th day of the month shows individual self-expression is necessary for your happiness. You tend to have a good way of expressing yourself with words, certainly in a manner that is clear and understandable. You have a good chance of success in fields requiring skill with words. You can be very dramatic in your presentation and you may be a good actor or a natural mimic. You have a vivid imagination that can assist you in becoming a good writer or story-teller. Strong in your opinions, you always tend to think you are on the right side of an issue. There may be a tendency to scatter your energies and have a lot of loose ends in your work. You may have significant artistic talent and be very creative.

31
Your birthday suggests that you are a good organizer and manager, an energetic and dependable worker; attributes often showing success in the business world. Serious and sincere, you have the patience and determination necessary to accomplish a great deal. Your approach can be original, but often rigid and stubborn. Sensitivity may be present, but feelings are likely to be repressed. You are good with detail and insist on accuracy, but at times scatter energies. Practical thinker, but not without imagination. You love travel and don't like to live alone. You should probably marry early, for responsibility is necessary for your stability

SEXUALITY BY STARS



ARIES

Your sexuality is hot and intense. Like a blowtorch, you heat up rapidly and like a firecracker, you explode in a blaze of fire and sparks. You love the unorthodox and the unusual in sexual encounters and you are not afraid to go after what you want. Ruled by Mars, the god of warriors, you are straightforward and uncomplicated in the pursuit of your desires. Pursuit is the key word here. You love the thrill of the chase and thrive on the smell of danger. You avidly respond to the challenge of dominating some new quarry.The downside of this is that, without constant stimulation, you become rather bored with what you perceive to be conquered territory. Your Ram's ego must be constantly fed—and the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence! You are a sucker for anything new and exciting, especially anything ego-boosting. You also love to initiate others into the pleasures of some new experience. The merest sniff of nubile virginity seeking awakening sends you into lathers of eager anticipation. In the art of lovemaking, the Arien is enthusiastic and adventurous. Partners can sometimes be overwhelmed by this spirited approach, something which is not necessarily a sign of their weakness, but simply a reaction to the ardent intensity of passion. Aries loves to experiment and to take things to the limit, so, roll over Kama Sutra, the Aries lover is writing it all from scratch! Admirers should be aware of your need for ego-reinforcement. Ego-massage ("God, your breasts drive me wild", or "Mmmm, you're so big") and praise for performance—even, or especially, when not particularly warranted—will get anyone a long way with the Aries lover. Seriously, though, it would not hurt for some ardent Ariens to actually take the time to discover some more sensitive approaches to the art of love. A glance through a manual or two, especially in the company of a lover, can lead to new highs and lingering climaxes that may extend the limit far beyond the boundaries of imagination.

TAURUS

Your sexuality is strong and deep, though not necessarily electric on the surface. Sensual, but conservative, you prefer a cosy courtship, replete with good food and wine in copious quantities. Ruled by Venus, the goddess of beauty and desire, you are strikingly attractive, in a somewhat statuesque way. Your sensuality and readiness to please make you a desirable partner for one who seeks a solid, secure and long-lasting relationship. You have a marked fondness for all pleasures of the senses, but, of course, do not give yourself lightly to mere passing fancies. This reflects your great strength and loyalty. Elegant, erotic Venus stimulates your earthy appetites, which can be voracious when awakened. Indeed, your sexuality is more readily aroused when your appetite for edibles has been assuaged. Let's get first things first! Taurus has hungers and can be quite methodical in the satisfaction thereof. The pathway to the connubial bed is strewn with foodstuffs... A tender meeting of like minds over a delicious repast, combined with fine wine and luscious music, in a secure environment where nothing unexpected is likely to occur is your ideal scenario for seduction. Taurus, however, is straight-forward and down-to-earth in sexual matters. A no-nonsense approach is favoured and too much verbalising, or complex fantasising is not really Taurus's thing. Music or other forms of sensual, non-verbal expression will strike a chord in the Taurean nature. Admirers should be aware that having opened the floodgates of passion, Taurus can be both insatiable and possessive and Taurean emotions will be trifled with at your peril. The great side of this is that Taurus is intensely loyal and makes a caring, life-long partner, who will seek to provide for and satisfy your needs (so long as they are sure that the food supply is in no danger of running out...)


GEMINI
Your sexuality is, well, shall we say, fickle? Let's face it, you do blow hot and cold (sometimes even at the same time, a feat not easily appreciable by the non-Geminian...). You love adventure and intrigue and will take all manner of risks in the runaround involved with your urgent desire to avoid boredom. Ruled by Mercury, the god (among other things) of tricksters and thieves, you are far from straightforward and uncomplicated in the pursuit of your desires. Your penchant for variety and need for constant stimulation often finds you the strangest bedfellows. The main requirement is verbal communication. If they can talk, they can talk you into it (and vice versa). Your greatest aphrodisiac is a partner (or partners) with a flashing wit, quick mind and tolerant appreciation of your sparkling insights and observations of the bizarre trends in human behaviour. Sexually you are adventurous and will try anything that is exciting, new, or off the beaten track. So long as it involves another stimulating item to add to your repertoire, just about any sexual height can be attained, providing that it does not become habitual.You tend to be ambi-sexual and are not unduly averse to multiple partners of either sex, should they fit the needs of the moment and spark up one or another side of your often contradictory nature. Admirers should be aware that your dual nature may not be satisfied with just one partner. You are tolerant of most things (including infidelity, but excepting dullness!) and you expect the same tolerance that you allow others.

CANCER


Your vein of sexuality runs deep, but follows a path strewn with obstacles (often of your own making). You are profoundly emotional and deeply sensitive, so you build a hard shell around your heart to protect it from the slings and arrows of fortune, especially those flung by those less sensitive who do not understand how wounding their ostensibly trivial actions can be. Ruled by the Moon, you tend to flow with the tides and are very reflective of your environment. You can be quite sexually creative, when your need for security has been satisfied. You love variety, but can be reluctant to make the first move. Your sexuality is primarily directed toward the satisfaction of the other and you will generally go along with whatever that other cares to do, so long as he or she is sympathetic and considerate of your feelings. Emotions run high in the Cancerian soul. Things can get pretty steamy in there, for there is a conflict between your desire for emotional security and a need for creative expression, either or both of which may be stimulated by the right partner (or partners). Sometimes the Cancerian shell is so thick, that you simply use others for your own satisfaction, unless they can figure out a way to break through your armour. In so doing, they may be overwhelmed by the sheer emotional torrent that is released. Cancer is moody. Admirers may find it hard to deal with your inexplicable changes, so the best thing to do is to make a conscious effort to work on the positive side of any upsetting situation. Admirers should also know that making you the centre of their attention and dealing with your mother fixation by complimenting and spoiling you rotten is the best way to achieve their desires.


LEO

Your sexuality is powerful. The solar fire of the Sun rules your nature, so your whole personality is dynamic and attractive to others. There is no shortage of those who long to bask in your solar warmth! You do prefer to be the centre of attention in any situation and the bedroom mazurka is no different. You are open to any manner of sexual interaction that clearly demonstrates your own desirability and rightful place at the centre of things.You are not really all that sexually imaginative, however, so a tryst or two with a flighty Sagittarian, or a sly Gemini, or an ardent Aries could awaken unsuspected sides of your sexuality. Having awakened, however, you are a strong and loyal lover, who is prepared to go as far as the road takes you, although you recoil from things which are personally degrading, or perceived to be beneath your dignity. You are supremely loyal and protective, so long as your rulership is acknowledged by the rest of the pride, but you do require appropriate ego-massage. Admirers should be aware of this need for ego-reinforcement. Ego-massage ("God, your lips are so gorgeous and your breasts drive me wild", or "Mmmm, your muscles are magnificent, so masculine") and vocal praise for performance (even, or especially, when not particularly warranted) will get anyone a long way with the Leo lover. Anyone who wishes to make it with Leo must never undermine the leonine dignity, or they will surely suffer the claws of the cat.


VIRGO

Your sexuality is delicate and fastidious. The way to your heart is through your head. While you can intellectually assent to any number of unusual or unorthodox views and positions on any number of subjects, in practice you are pretty conservative and hard-headed when it comes to relationships, particularly when sex is involved. You can easily become cynical. You are not the most highly sexed sign of the zodiac, but you are perhaps the most intellectual. At the same time, being an Earth Sign, ruled by the planet Mercury (the messenger of the gods and the ruler of intellect and communication), you like to keep a critical eye on the proceedings with a view to not letting things get out of hand. You will experiment with a good grace, especially if convinced that you can trust your partner not to make too much of a mess, or leave things in total disarray, but basically you prefer a more refined form of sexual relationship, wherein sex has its place (in the bedroom) and decorum rules. A meeting of minds is what you really prefer, although this is not to say that you never get horny. The more adventurous amongst you will throw caution to the winds for a while as you sow your oats, but will invariably need to return to your own ordered spaces to consider and categorise the experience. Admirers must realise that Virgo can be quite spectacularly moody and may lash out with a sharp tongue if an affront be perceived, but can be assured that if they are well-presented and trustworthy, you will respond well to the slow but steady approach.In the art of lovemaking, you present a slow-burning fuse that, once properly lit, ignites an explosion of white heat which can take a while to cool down. Moreover, you can be a devoted and caring partner for someone with whom you feel an intellectual rapport and whose mind you respect.

LIBRA

Your sexuality is responsive, yet very much subject to the nature of the environment. A natural partner, your need to relate makes you eager to please, but can see you often looking for someone more satisfactory somewhere else. Ruled by Venus, the goddess of beauty and of lovers, you have impeccable taste and are widely considered attractive, yet you can be coquettish and even devious in the pursuit of your desires. You can be somewhat narcissistic at times and respond readily to praise and flattery. Your ego is a little fragile, so you respond to reassurance and appreciation of your good taste (in say, your appearance, body parts, clothes, art, interior design and so on). You love to be admired and are more than a little exhibitionistic. You will go along with most things, particularly if they present you in your best light. You seek to please your partner and tend to view lovemaking as an art at which, of course, you excel. Creating the right environment for love is very important and a failure to do so on the part of a prospective partner will most likely lead to your rapid, though decorous, retreat. You respond and relate to things of beauty and generally prefer artifice to unadorned nature. You also love to explore the pleasures of love with a partner (though, of course, in the absence of same, there's always your own sure touch...). Admirers should be aware of your need for reassurance, your love of sensual pleasure and beautiful things—and that flattery will get them anywhere.

SCORPIO

Your sexuality is deep, all-consuming and intense. You seek transformation through the sexual experience, which you never undertake lightly. Ruled by Mars, the god of primitive action and Pluto the lord of the underworld, you mix primal passion with a profound need to uncover the mysteries of life and death, including and especially sexual ones. Your emotions run deep and your faculty of intuition is remarkably accurate, so your antennae can prick up and pick out a prospective partner at first sight. Scorpio rules the generative organs and so you have no doubt grown up with a heightened sense of the fascination, not to say fear and loathing, with which lesser mortals view sexuality and Scorpio sexuality in particular. You are seen as sexually dynamic, threatening, voracious, insatiable, overwhelming and generally mysterious. This is of course not without foundation and you have been known to take advantage of this fascination, rather like a snake hypnotising a bird before devouring it. However, you fundamentally need to get to the very bottom of everything, so that you may transform and transmute yourself through the harnessing of natural energies. Sexual activity comes naturally to you, although some seek to repress and transform the sexual scorpion into the eagle of high spirituality. You mix fire with water to create a steamy swamp of overheated passion and desire. Anything is acceptable in your sensual world, for you are interested in the end, not the means. If it blows your mind, or it expands your sexual repertoire, or enables you to exert your dominance, it will be fine by you. Admirers should be ready and willing to be consumed, if they wish to get the best from you. Also, if they are looking for some powerful sexual pleasure, they need look no further.

SAGGITARIUS

Your sexuality is lively, lusty and adventurous. You love to break new ground, in sexual encounters as in everything else and you are quite willing to go for what you want. Ruled by Jupiter, the grand leader of the gods, you are expansive and all-encompassing in your tastes and interests.You are uninhibited, ready to make love on impulse and not impressed with delaying tactics, or feeble, wimpy attempts to win your favour. The most important issue for you is truth and honesty. You hate intolerance in all its forms (how's that for logic...?) and you are as open about your desires and sexual needs as you are about everything else. Guilt and shame are foreign to your sexual persona and you do not have much patience with more convoluted souls in these matters. Lusty Sagittarius lays the cards on the table (and that might be a good place to get started...!). Most people find you disarmingly friendly and you appreciate openness in return. Sex for you is fun and can be a doorway into higher awareness. You are anything but conservative in sexual matters and you are a sucker for the new and exotic, especially things redolent of adventure and far-away places. Admirers should take note that making plans for travel at the drop of a hat, or intimate accounts of personal experiences in foreign parts will get your juices running. This should be followed immediately by passionate sex before the urge ebbs away..


CAPRICON


Your insecurities can hold you back, though you have inner strength and a load of ambition. Ruled by Saturn, the god of karma and restraint, you may be frustrated in the pursuit of your desires, yet have the ability to keep pushing out the envelope until you finally achieve your goal. The Goat is a randy beast, so despite your self-consciousness, you have deep-seated desires that somehow just keep thrusting up to the surface. You are open to sexual experiment, but as a rule, prefer not to take the initiative until you are sure of your ground.You are fundamentally loyal and need a suitably supportive partner to whom you will remain faithful, once you have committed yourself. However, should that person prove unfaithful, the green eyed demon of jealousy will emerge with a vengeance. Some Capricorns are sexually repressed and can appear frigid or disinterested. This can be overcome by a caring partner who is prepared spend some time and delicate experimentation finding out what turns you on.For example, oral stimulation may just be the trigger to wake your sleeping beauty! Once awoken, she is hard to shut down again, so admirers should realise that Capricorn is really in it for the long haul, even when apparently undergoing a more promiscuous stage.

AQUARIUS


Your sexuality is steady, yet unorthodox. You are experimental and love the unorthodox and the unusual in sexual encounters, which you often undergo, for you are not afraid to follow your desires.Ruled by Uranus, the unconventional god of the sky, you always aim high and wild, although your co-ruler, Saturn, the god of karma and restriction, usually keeps your feet firmly on the ground. An unconventional nature makes you impatient with less adventurous souls, while your powerful intellect propels you into original thought and desire to take things to the limit in unusual directions. Your sex-drive is not unduly strong, yet your need to explore and be stimulated sometimes gives others the impression that your desires are rampant! Be that as it may, you are open to all forms of experimentation (in the search for new knowledge) and the field of sexuality and relationships is no exception. You are attracted to partners with interesting and unconventional minds (and bodies) and if their sexuality is unconventional, well you'll play along at least until you've extracted a new chapter for your own personal x-files.. You are a sucker for anything that breaks new ground. You are however able to view your body's activities in quite a detached light, something that partners find difficult to understand. Admirers should be aware of your need for experimentation and, from time to time, need for solitude to recharge your batteries.


PISCES


Your sexuality is fantasy-driven and dynamite when stoked by the right mixture of wish-fulfilment, appropriate environment and emotional stimulation (not to mention drugs and alcohol!). You tend to idealise your partner, often mistaking your responses to archetypal pattern-fixations for the genuine article. This is astro-babble for the fact that you allow your imaginative emotions to cloud your judgement when it comes to sexual attraction. You are deeply intuitive and sympathetic, but can be easily deceived by those who fit your fantasy patterns. Your personality is complex. Spiritual depth rides with a proclivity for fantasy and self-deception or deception of others. Sexually you are ambivalent, with a need for love and reassurance vying with an almost masochistic urge to be dominated. You are sexually adventurous and willing to experiment, so long as you feel secure with a partner (or partners), or if you have been subjugated to a stronger will. You love sensitivity and are quite artistic, though sometimes unduly fixated upon the negative or dark aspects of your sex life. You readily follow others into the pleasures of some new experience and get hot when your emotional and archetypal streams are tapped. Your empathy with others and desire to please means that you often respond to sexual advances before they have become much more than a gleam in the eye of the prospect! Admirers should be aware of your need for protection and a firm structure to prevent you from drowning the in sea of emotion. You love to help those in need and prefer to be with a stronger person with whom you can explore the delights of your relationship. An appeal to sympathy will get anyone a long way with the Pisces lover.












STARS AND OUR PARENTS


Star Parents
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A full astrological chart includes many different planets and points but most people are familiar with one of the most important elements of a chart — the Sun Sign. Your Sun Sign reveals your basic identity and your core personality. Have fun identifying yourself in the descriptions below...


(ARIES PARENT)
Your enthusiasm and high energy level make you a marvellous parent, as you are able to inspire children who are far less assertive than yourself. You try to get the most out of having children and love to help them devlop their own interests both in the home and at school. Although as a young parent, you may feel very impatient with your children at times and have a hasty temper, it soon passes over and you rarely hold a grudge. In fact, an Aries parent usually has very few problems with the generation gap between parent and child.
An Aries mother organises her time well so she can spend the maximum time with her children in various activities, but she also needs to be able to feel that she has freedom and is not trapped in the house at all. It is very important for an Aries parent to be praised and feel appreciated for their efforts by both child and partner.


(TAURUS PARENT)
A Taurean parent works hard to see that the child has access to opportunities that they never had. Although a stcikler for discipline and manners, a Taurean parent is never short on cuddles. They need to watch that they explain why they are doing things and never be too dogmatic, so that the child understands. Otherwise, a generation gap could pring up quickly.

Just as Taureans tend to over-indulge themselves, they may be tempted to over-indulge their children. Since money is important to a Taurean, they like to see their children saving up their pocket money to spend on luxuries. Spending on education is seen as extremely worthwhile.


(GEMINI PARENT)
You make a lively, adaptable, sensible and positive parent who is able to present your children witha constant stream of new ideas and experiences. You can sometimes be more in touch with the current trends than your children are! When exposing your children to new ideas, you may need to make allowances for their slower grasp of concepts and not be too impatient or critical of them. You like to be able to broaden your children's minds and your home environment will be extremely stimulating.However, constant childish chatter and repetitive noise can irritate you, and you wil need frequent breaks, especially if you are stuck at home. But usually a
Gemini mother has no problems managing a family, home and a job all at once. And enjoys it!
Your children may find your lightning changes of mood bewildering, and if they are the plodding type, they may overtax your limited supply of patience. But they will be on the same wavelength as you as, in conversation , you tend to jump from topic to topic without a break. And, of course, the Gemini dad is great because he is the eternal Peter Pan.


(CANCER PARENT)
Cancerians make excellent parents. This is the sign that represents motherhood. You are extremely nurturing and have a deep need to preserve the family unit. Taken too far this can translate into being over-protective and overly-concerned about your children's welfare, reluctant to let them become independent and move away from your sphere of indluence. In response to situations involving your children you may also react from emotions rather than taking a more rational stance.

With your rich imagination, Cancerians make great storytellers and nobody gives a cuddle like a Cancerian.


(LEO PARENT)
This is the sign that represents fatherhood. You are an entusiastic parent who is prepared to spend a great deal on deducation and educational holidays. You encourage your children to use their natural talents but your enthusiasm can swamp and overwhelm quieter and more timid children.

You have to be careful not to expect too much from your children, or to live out your own desires and wishes through them. You are able to expose your children to the beauties of this planet. Overall you try to bring up your children in a straightforward and honest way.
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(VIRGO PARENT)
You tend to plan your family and try to have your children arrive right when you want them. Although you can be fairly strict, expecially in matters of diet, routine and hygiene, you are a very loving parent. However, you may be alittle reserved in showing your lvoe.. You are an inspired and inspiring teacher of children and are able to show them the value of duty, honesty and responsibility.
You are very keen to fill your children's lives with a great many interesting and varied activiites. You may also like to teach them to read and talk at an early age. As a Virgo parent, you like an orderly home, but you must learn to delegate chores more around the home so you don't wear yourself out.


(LIBRA PARENT)
You make an easy-going parent who is able to instil good manners and the social graces in your children. You encourage them to dress nicely and follow extra-curricular intersts, whilst being prepared to provide the money for these activities. You detest disharmony in the family and will often say "yes" just to keep the peace. Your indecisiveness can be very frustrating to your children when they want a quick answer, as can the "go ask your mother/father" routine. As you probably have already realised, your children soon learn to twist you round their little finger!

(SCORPIO PARENT)
You can be a strict disciplinarian, although you reward your children generously for efforts made. But you hate seeing them wasting their time and their potential. You can be quite demanding in what you expect from them and may find it difficult to relate to them if their attitude to life is very different from yours. Your relatinship with your children is very tense and emotional, although you may not always be overly demonstrative. However, all your love, support and guidance is always there for them.
You are very good at intuiting what your children need, and your vivid imagination allows you entry into your children's world. The Scorpio mother has the power and intensity to comfortably and efficiently deal with a job, a family and the household all at the same time.


(SAGITTARIUS PARENT)
If you are a Sagittarian mum, you may secretly fear you are not up to the responsibilities fo motherhood, and if you are a Sagittarian dad, you are the archetypal reluctant father. But your natural enthusiasm and zest for life make you an ideal parent. Once you have decided to have children you will be quite sentimental about them and willing to make sacrifices for them. You are fascinated by your children's development and will want to teach them to read at an early age,
but you may find a toddler's conversation and limited behaviour boring. make the effort to find time away or else your growing restlessness will make you a less good parent than you want to be. Watch out that your enthusiasm doesn't make you a little demanding of your children, especially if they don't always take advantage of all the opportunities presented to them.
You can be a lot of fun as a parent since you take your job very seriously. You are keen for your children to excel and take part in many activities both in and out of school.


(CAPRICORN PARENT)
Capricorn mothers may be tempted to go back to work early as they find it very hard to take the loss if income. Capricorn fathers often fall into the trap of being distant and unapproachable although they vigorously deny this. The Capricorn parent should listen to their family when he or she is told to relax and be prepared to break routine and do what the rest of the family suggests.
Even though deep down you are an emotional softie, you are very good at hiding your feelings from the rest of the world. This can give you the appearance of being cold and insensitive which is the last thing you want your family to believe.

(AQUARIUS PARENT)
You are very patient with your kids and they love your talent for storytelling. The way youi bring up your children may be unconventional. In fact, your children may seem more conventional than you! You listen fairly and carefuly to what your children have to say, come straight to the point and try to treat them like little adults. At times you can seem distracted, but you are full of warmth and care although you may not always like to openly express your emotions in spontaneous outbursts of warmth and physical contact.

Your children's education concerns you greatly, as well as allowing them freedom of expression. You want to bring them up to be independent and self-sufficient. The only trap that you might fall into, is assuming your children see life in exactly the same way as you do.


(PISCES PARENT)
Although at times you are a little too easy-going and may lack discipline you make a wonderful parent. This is because you are able to understand your child's world becuase you never truly left it. You are prepared to do everything possible to halp your child realise their potential, gving them encouragement and support. If your child is particularly successful, you must not make the mistake of living your life through them.
Clever young children usually have no problem twisting you around their little finger. However, make sure that you never allow yourself to become a doormat for your children or partner.

YOUR CHILD AND STARS



A full astrological chart includes many different planets and points but most people are familiar with one of the most important elements of a chart — the Sun Sign. Your Sun Sign reveals your basic identity and your core personality. Have fun identifying your child (or yourself as a child) in the descriptions below...


ARIES CHILD
If you have a little dynamo who never seems to run out of energy, then it is highly likely you have a little Ram. Aries children love adventure and find themselves in plenty of close scrapes and accidents.
At school, they may be lazy during lessons that they feel are boring although they do have a quick mind.
Even though Aries children do have a selfish side to their nature, they also have a very strong desire to please others. They love to have fun but their impulsiveness may occasionally lead to thoughtlessness.
Although Aries children need discipline, they also need plenty of freedom for self-expression and are easily crushed. Offering a challenge can be a way of inducing good behaviour. The parents of an Aries child need to realise that balance is the key here. Too much discipline will embitter the child, and too little may encourage selfishness.


TAURUS CHILD
The Taurean baby is good-natured and content. They enjoy plenty of food and cuddles. Their love for good plain food can lead to a problem with chubbiness but it can be useful to know they are easily won over using food as a bribe. But remember a hug will work just as well as food to get your Taurean child to do what you want them to do.
Taurean children are methodical and well-organised so they are popular with their teachers but they must be allowed to develop at their own steady pace. they may be plodders but they will get there in the end. Taurean children usually have a strong musical streak.
Security is of utmost importance to these children, so they need plenty of regular cuddles and demonstrations of affection. This child is the most stubborn of the zodiac and often balks at new situations. But don't despair, once they decide to get going they jump right in.


GEMINI CHILD
Gemini children are so friendly and approachable that they need to be educated about the possible danger of strangers. They are extremely energetic and need to be practically forced to bed. The parents of a Gemini child need to encourage consistency of effort so that projects get finished. The Gemini child happily does several things at once, jumping form one thing to another as their interest wanes and waxes. It is also important to encourage them to express their own opinions.
Gemini children will only accept discipline if the reasons for it are logically and clearly explained. The main problem will be catching these children red-handed because they are so quick. When they are caught, they are extremely contrite and will make sure they are not caught again! Many parents would describe them as half-devil, half-angel.
Gemini children love to debate an issue which canlead to arguments, especially with brothers and sisters who are less quick-minded. They can swap subjects with Mercurial swiftness and both you and the child may have trouble sorting fact from fiction.


CANCER CHILD
The mother plays an extremely important role in the Cancerian children's lives and they suffer a great deal if for any reason they are sent away from home. They need to be nurtured and cherished. It is agood idea to let them have a pet for them to nurture and cherish as well. They tend to stick to what is tried and true and will not venture very far out of their shell, if at all, which will annoy more outgoing parents.
Cancerian children can suffer from many fears and apprehensions which they need to be gently persuaded to talk about so that they don't worry unnecessarily. They have a wonderfully powerful imagination which should be stimulated. They can be quite courageous, especially when protecting themselves and their loved ones. Once they feel totally secure with a strong home base, these children are capable of anything.
Cancerian children have excellent memories so parents should be careful not to promise anything they cannot deliver.


LEO CHILD
The Leo child is the exuberant leader of games, showing off so that they wil be the centre of attention. Unless they learn to control their energy they will end up exhausted at the end of the day. Leo children are extremely creative and need to express this both during childhood and all throughout their lives, or else they will feel that something important is missing from their lives.
Because sunny Leo children love being the centre of attention and are not shy in demanding it, it is easy to forget that they have a fragile self-esteem that needs to be bolstered. So when criticising Leo children, try to mix in a great deal of tact and humour so their self-confidence doesn't take a battering.
On the one hand, Leo children can be very bossy around other children, and even towards their parents. But on the other hand, once they feel in charge, they give a good impression of benevolent monarchs bestowing gifts and favours on those around them.


VIRGO CHILD
Virgo children are diligent, quiet, dependable and often superb mimics. They are neat and tidy at school, and are not afraid of doing classroom chores. They should be encouraged to write and usually do well at literary and associated subjects.
Emotionally, Virgo childen can be quite shy and they need the security of a lot of demonstrable love, although they may not come out and ask for it. If they do not receive the love and attention they desire, they may complain of illnesses in order to get the attention they need.
Being very inquisitive children, they will politely but painstakingly get to the heart of any matter. They love to be kept busy. If they complain of stomach aches, don't look at what they have been eating, but rather at what has been worrying them as there is usually a direct connection. Virgo children find security in routines and patterns and you will find they will train their parents accordingly!
Another thing — Virgo children never forget!


LIBRA CHILD
Libran children are beautiful children to have because they are generous, keen to please and charming. However, they can be fairly lazy due to a general lack of motivation, so often they need to be encouraged to get involved in other interests. Libran children usually love books, especially beautifully designed books. They also enjoy energetic sporting activities which bring out their competitive streak.
However, they do have trouble in coming to decisions, even over the most trivial of things. Often they may ask their parents or others to decide for them, but this shouldn't be encouraged. Help them to decide themselves by explaining all the options and working it through with them. If all else fails, make the decision yourslef and you swill find that the Libran child soon tells you whether or not he or she agrees with it!


SCORPIO CHILD
Scorpio children have powerful emotions and can seem quite intense and moody at times. Keeping them busy can help to keep their emotions under control. They have so much energy, that if it not used constructively then it will find some other outlet, most often in a destructive manner.
Constant routine and discipline provide Scorpio children with security, but they need to have the reasons behind the rules explained to them so that they can accept them. It is very important to Scorpio children that their privacy is respected.
Scorpio children have excellent memories and are intensely curious about the world around them. They love to ask questions so even after the umpteenth question, the exasperated parent must remember that these children genuinely want to know how the world works.
Scorpio children have a natural urge to help others. They aer also extremely protective of themselves and of their loved ones.


SAGITTARIUS CHILD
If you have the child with the broadest, sunniest smile in the school photos, then perhaps you are the proud parent of a Sagittarian. Hold onto your littel Archer tightly because these children love an adventure and don't mind wandering far afield to find it.
This is the eternal child who needs to be taught the difference between over-boisterousness and positive enthusiasm. In order to develop their natural breadth of vision, they need to be encouraged to take up both physical and intellectual interests. Although they need "things to do" to harness their exuberance, they do tire easily and must learn to siphon their energies into manageable and productive projects. However, Sagittarian children can be terrible procrastinators when it comes to more mundane tasks.
Their honesty and scalding frankness may need to be toned down by a large dose of tact. They can also be quite gullible. Sagittarian children will keep to rules as long as they see the reasons behind them are sensible, so if you are telling a Sagittarian child what not to do, appeal to their sense of logic.


CAPRICORN CHILD
Capricorn children can often be more conventional than their parents. It is a strange fact that Capricorn babies often don't look like babies at all, they look like little old men or ladies. As they grow older they seem to paradoxically grow younger and more carefree.
Capricorn children have deep emotions which may be kept hidden away so it is up to the parents to help them express their feelings freely.
Capricorn children are shy and very sensitive although they may hide this behind a sturdy shield of self-defence. Their musical talents should be exploited and they should be introduced to books at an early age. Outdoors fun should also be encouraged.
If the Capricorn child grumbles too much then appeal to their sense of humour (which may be quite dry). It is easy to forget how young the Capricorn child really is and give them far more responsibility than they are really ready for, because they act aso grown-up. This child likes routine very much because it forms part of his or her much needed security. So if you need to break the routine don't forget a warning or explanation.


AQUARIUS CHILD
This child can seem very different to his or her brothers and sisters. Aquarian children are creative, original and humanitarian. Although they are naturally very kind children. they need help in expressing their emotions and inner warmth, as they can easily appear remote. The Aquarius child is an extremely independent child, and can show moments of extreme stubbornness.
Their school progress can be somewhat uneven, especially when they feel they are being stifled by too much routine and too many illogical rules. Aquarian children have so much talent, even genius, which needs to be given practical application. Despite their amazing insights, often they cannot see the wood for the trees.
Aquarian children love to know how things work and especially enjoy mechanical toys which can be disassembled. Be forewarned if they get their hands on any precious household gadgets!


PISCES CHILD
If you have a child with an imaginary friend or two, you have a little Piscean on your hands. Little fishes are extremely emotional and quite gentle, preferring their own imaginary world to harsh reality. However, deep below lies a very strong core which allows them to achieve their goals.
Piscean children are very clever but because they are not well- suited to the discipline of the rote learning of the school system, the Piscean child may seem to be failing and lazy.
The Piscean child seems to have an ever-changing personality and may embroider the truth. They prefer to tell people what they think the other person wants to hear, rather than what they really feel, which may be seen as out and out lying.

Saturday, May 3, 2008

Witching Hour Sex





Witching Hour Sex
This passionate ritual is guaranteed to drive you wild!
This ritual should be performed early in the evening.



To begin, light two beeswax candles and place them on a flat surface.
Place a container of your favorite massage or body oil near one of the candles. Next to the other candle, place a container of either honey or sweet strawberry jam. If you or your lover do not like honey or jam, feel free to substitute a food for which you have a passion in their place. The sweeter the choice?the better! On a piece of paper, draw a pentacle large enough to place the oil, honey or jam into its center.



One at a time, place each item into the center of the pentacle and recite the following words:
Sweet and slipperyPassion?s pleasuresDone in time or done in measuresIn this item heat imbueFor this and all we choose to do!



Repeat this with each item. When completed, the items should be placed within arm?s reach of the location chosen for lovemaking. Only after the items have been placed for use should you extinguish the candles.



Lovemaking will be best at midnight!
Ritual of Enhancement
A steamy ritual used to incite and enhance passion in your lover.
Approximately two hours prior to when you expect to have sex with yo{1}ur partner, go into the room where the lovemaking will take place and light a single beeswax candle. Place the candle on a table near the bed.



In a cup or small bowl, pour approximately ? cup of spring water. Into the water, pour about one tablespoon of scented body oil. Place the index finger of your left hand in the mixture of water and oil; hold the candle in your right hand.



Speak the following words:
Water, oil, molten waxIn sex and passion do relaxCandle burn, ignite the firesOf our sexual desiresBuild and burnTwist and turnFor the satisfaction yearn!
Remove your finger from the water and oil. Drip at least seven drops or more of the melted wax from the candle into the mixture. Stir the mixture with your right index finger and then slowly and gently rub the mixture over your skin. Sprinkle a small amount of the mixture onto the bed.

Fire Starter
A spell to cast on your lover to ignite their passionate side.
Place twelve fresh, red rose petals in a bowl.



Light two sticks or cones of rose incense and allow them to burn completely and cool. Take the ashes from the incense and sprinkle them over the rose petals. Stir the petals about to incorporate the ashes into the mix.



On a small piece of paper, write your lover?s name. Fold the paper two times into a small square. Place the folded paper into the center of the mixture of petals and ash.



Recite this invocation:
Goddess of Love and Passion, hear my prayer.May this simple offering please you toInstill in my lover a deep and longing passion.Heed my call to incite,A passion for pleasure,By day and by night!
Place the mixture of petals, ash and the written name of your lover in a small, cloth pouch. Tie the pouch closed. Hide the pouch in the room where your lover sleeps.

Shudders and Shakes
A ritual to bring your lovemaking to a shuddering climax!
You will need a small, clear, glass jar with a lid (an empty baby food jar works well). You will also need a hair from your lover, one of your own hairs, two apple seeds, apple cider vinegar and a full pinch of baking soda.



Place a piece of white fabric on a table top. Light a single beeswax candle and place it on the table. Turn the jar upside-down and hold it, open-end down, over the burning candle for a few seconds? just long enough to allow smoke from the candle to enter the jar.




Turn the jar right-side-up and place it on the table. Fill the jar ? full with vinegar. Into the vinegar place your hair, your lover?s hair and the two apple seeds. Swirl the jar around to fully wet the hairs.



Holding the candle in your left hand, speak the following words:
In this mixture is the startTo build desire of the heartGrow and boil in fires flameDesire that no kiss can tameShudder, shake with waves of pleasureFar too great to ever measure!
Drop the full pinch of baking soda into the jar. Do not touch the jar until the contents have settled. Once they have fully settled, place the lid on the jar, extinguish the candle and hide the jar in the room where the lovemaking will take place.

Love at Light
A spell for increasing early-morning passions.
This spell should be cast in the evening.
This spell requires a small piece of white fabric, a few drops of your lover?s favorite perfume or cologne, a bay leaf, a small quantity of crushed almond and a piece of sting with which to tie the fabric.



Place the bay leaf and crushed almonds in the center of the piece of fabric. Sprinkle a few drops of the perfume or cologne over it all. Form a small pouch of the fabric and tie it closed with the string.



Light a single beeswax candle.
Hold the pouch in both hands and speak these words:
Scents of passion fill the air,Like the morning?s dewLovers fresh, lovers strong,Lover?s thirst renews!



Place the pouch under the bed you share with your lover. The spell can be refreshed as often as needed simply by holding the pouch once again in both hands and reciting the invocation.

Passion Booster
Cast this spell to add power to existing passion!
On the eve of a full moon, light a single beeswax candle. Place the candle on a low table and kneel in front of the candle. Once kneeling, light a Frankincense incense stick and place it to the right of the candle.



Fold your hands in front of the candle and recite the following incantation three times:
Goddess of Love, Passion and Desire, hear my prayerLet the passion that exists withinGrow to new expansesAllow the fire that burns within To grow hotterLet no damp nor chilly nightDowse the flamesBut rather thaw the icy barrierAnd warm the stillness withinIncite to new heights The passions of my soulThat never may they grow cold.



Once you have repeated this incantation three times, remain kneeling until the incense has dropped sufficient ashes so that you can, with your right index finger dipped in the ash, draw a circle of ash over your heart. When the circle has been drawn, extinguish the candle. The spell is done. Do not wash the ash away. Allow it to wear off naturally.

Love at Length
Extend the duration of your lovemaking.
This spell can be cast over{1} a man or woman, for yourself, your partner or both. A strand of hair from each of the persons over whom this spell is to be cast is needed. The hair should be no longer than four inches in length and can be cut if needed. Shorter than four inches is fine. You will also need a small quantity of crushed, dried, hot pepper seeds.



We will assume that you are casting the spell for 2 persons. If you cast the spell for only one person, you will only need a strand of hair from that person.



Light a beeswax candle. Place a piece of paper, approximately six inches long and two inches wide, flat on the table. Pour some melted wax from the candle along the length of the paper and pulling one of the strands of hair straight, attach it to the paper. Try to keep the hair as straight as possible. Do this again with the other hair. Sprinkle some of the pepper seeds down the center of the paper, between the two hairs. You should end-up with something like this:

Roll the paper so that you have a six-inch long roll and seal it securely, including the ends, with wax from the candle. Extinguish the candles. Keep the roll in the room you share with your lover.

Love Nest
A unique ritual for turning any location into a Love-Nest.
Start in any room and repeat the ritual in each room until completed. Do not allow any interruptions to the ritual.



You will need a cone or stick of your favorite incense and an incense burner for each room. Take care to use the same scent and type of incense throughout.
On the eve of a waxing moon, light a single beeswax candle. The candle should be placed in a holder that can be easily and safely carried about.



Carrying the candle into each room, light an incense in the center, or as close to the center of the room as possible.



Carry the candle to each corner of the room and recite the following invocation as you reach each corner:



Spirit of Passion, find favor in this place.
Repeat this process room-by-room until each room has been visited. When finished, extinguish the candle, but allow the incense to burn completely in each room. If the incense goes out, it may be lighted again.
Note: If you miss a room or a corner, or if the candle goes out before you have completed the ritual, the ritual must be started again, from the beginning.

Passion?s Web
A spell to draw the object of your passion into your web of love.
This spell should be cast on the evening of a full moon.



Light a single beeswax candle and place it near a window. The window does not need to be open. Tear a piece of paper approximately 3 inches square. In ink, write the name of your object of desire in the center of the paper. Fold the paper two times to form a smaller square.


Recite the following words:
Seductress moonOf silver heartLend your draw upon my loveMay it be soonWe never partCast your circle from above!
Pick up the candle and hold it to each of the four corners of the window.
Put the candle back down.
Take the piece of paper and tack or tape it securely to the top of the window frame.
Extinguish the candle.

Free Rein
A passionate ritual to be used for extinguishing inhibitions and igniting the fires of love!
This spell should be performed at noon.



On a piece of white paper, write the name of the person for whom you wish this spell to be cast, be it yourself or someone else. Under the persons name, write the inhibitions you wish to destroy. List them completely. Crumple the paper to form a ball.



Place a fireproof metal pot or pan on a table. Next to the pan, place a beeswax candle?do not light it yet.



Holding the ball of paper in your left hand, recite the following words:
Inhibitions go awayPassion?s fire, take its place!



Light the candle with your right hand. Using the flame of the candle, set fire to the paper ball and drop it in the fireproof container. While the paper is burning, focus on the passion you desire from that person. Allow the paper to burn until it goes out by itself. Do not attempt to light it again, simply dispose of the unburned remains.
Extinguish the candle.
The spell is done.

Witch Sex
A pre-sex ritual used to draw the powers of the cosmos to your bed.
This spell can be performed at any time, day or night.



Light a single beeswax candle. Hold the candle with both hands. Speak the following words:
Spirits of the cosmos and all withinBring your shining stars to the flameIgnite the fires of the fleshSo that all desires uniteSpirits of the cosmos and all withinFind favor in this spellDraw close to this placeLet loose your powersAnd unleash your willThat all may be satisfied in your grace.
Having spoken the words, extinguish the candle. Set the candle down. Allow the candle to cool until the melted wax hardens.



Once again recite the invocation without the candle being lighted.
Light the candle again. Do not pick it up. Allow it to burn until the wax around the wick melts.
Extinguish the candle again. The spell is done.

Witch Sex
A pre-sex ritual used to draw the powers of the cosmos to your bed.
This spell can be performed at any time, day or night.



Light a single beeswax candle. Hold the candle with both hands. Speak the following words:
Spirits of the cosmos and all withinBring your shining stars to the flameIgnite the fires of the fleshSo that all desires uniteSpirits of the cosmos and all withinFind favor in this spellDraw close to this placeLet loose your powersAnd unleash your willThat all may be satisfied in your grace.
Having spoken the words, extinguish the candle. Set the candle down. Allow the candle to cool until the melted wax hardens.



Once again recite the invocation without the candle being lighted.
Light the candle again. Do not pick it up. Allow it to burn until the wax around the wick melts.
Extinguish the candle again. The spell is done.

Uninhibited Desire
A spell for inciting wild, uninhibited, passionate lovemaking!
For this spell, you will need seven dried apple seeds, a sterile needle or straight pin, a beeswax candle, a few drops of your lover?s favorite perfume or cologne, a small jar with a lid, a cotton ball and enough spring water to fill the jar half-full.



Light the candle and use the flame to sterilize the needle or pin if necessary. Prick one of your fingers with the needle or pin and dab the blood onto the cotton ball. Place the cotton ball in the jar. Into the jar, add the apple seeds, a few drops of the perfume or cologne, and enough water to fill the jar half-full. Before you place the lid on the jar, speak these words:



Night of passion and desire,With this spell I do inspire,To taste the meats and fruits, to feast,With setting sun,Eve of the Beast!
Place the lid on the jar and shake the mixture well. Extinguish the candle. Allow the mixture to sit for three days.



After the three days have passed, remove the cotton ball and wrap it in a napkin or piece of fabric. Place the package under the bed you and your partner share.
Dispose of the remaining mixture.
Enjoy.

Exotic Love

A soft, warm spell for exotic love.
On a sunny day, pick or purchase a small bouquet of your favorite flowers. Take the flowers home and lay them on a table or place them in a vase. Light two beeswax candles and place the bouquet between them.



Prepare a bowl of your lover?s favorite, fresh fruits. If by some chance, your lover dislikes fruit, feel free to substitute a food or snack for which they have a passion. Fruit works best, but other foods will do. Place the bowl in front of the flowers, nearest you.
One-by-one, garnish the fruit with the flowers.




As you place each flower in the fruit, recite the following words:
Flowers and fruit, fresh and sweetLove and Desire, Passion greet
When you have finished garnishing the fruit with the flowers, place the bowl in a location that your lover frequents. Any unused flowers should be disposed of.


Extinguish the candle.
Each day that your lover partakes of the fruit, remove a flower from the bowl and place the flower in the bedroom, close to the bed. As the flowers accumulate, so will your lover?s passion.

Passion Water
A wet and wild spell!
You will need a small glass or plastic bottle with a stopper or cap.
Prepare a warm bath with your favorite oils or scents. Lie in the tub and close your eyes. Imagine your favorite fantasy involving your lover.




Let your mind run wild!
Use no soap to complete this bath? you?re going to save some of the water!
Take your bottle and fill it with water from the bath. Seal the bottle tightly.
Light a beeswax candle and place the bottle near it. Speak the following invocation:
Goddess of Love and Passion, hear my prayerBless this water with your kissLet fiery passion growHot desires, running freeLike the waters flow!



When you are ready for a night of hot, wet sex, empty the contents of the bottle into a shallow pan or bowl under your bed? then let your passion run wild!

Pure Passion

A passion cleansing spell for purifying your passions.
At dawn, on the morning following a full moon, as the sun breaks the horizon, stand at an open window, or outdoors, and face the sun.
Rotate counterclockwise one time and come back around to face the sun.


Speak the following words:


Goddess of Love, Passion and Desire, hear my prayerThat the Spirit of the Sun release the cleansing powerTo wash my passions clean and start anew, refreshedAs the virgin begins their journeySo let it beAs the sun rises on a new dayWash the old awayLet passion be once more planted in my heartAs a seed in the fresh-turned soilThat the waters of life shall rain upon my desireAnd Love, Passion and Desire shall grow.
Rotate clockwise one time and come back around to face the sun. Speak the following words:
As this I ask, so may it be granted.
The spell is done.

Love Lock
A binding spell for locking-in your passionate partner.
You will need to obtain a strand of hair from your lover.
You will also need a feather from a dove.



Light three beeswax candles and place them in the formation of a triangle. Tear a small circle of paper about three inches in diameter. Write your lover?s name and your name on the piece of paper using ink. Place the piece of paper in the center of the candle triangle.
Next, place the strand of hair on the circle of paper.



Extinguish the candles. Pour some melted wax from each of the candles onto the piece of paper so that the strand of hair is attached to the paper. Light the candles once again.
Place the feather of the dove onto the center of the paper. Extinguish the candles and once again, drip melted wax from each candle over the feather so that it is attached. Extinguish the candles.
Place the paper, with the strand of your lover?s hair and the dove?s feather attached, into an envelope. Seal the envelope. Hide the envelope in a safe place where it will not be found.
The spell is finished.

Sexual Risk
A spell for daring lovers! Watch-out for this one, it can get you into trouble.
On the eve of a waning moon, light four beeswax candles and place them in position to form a square. In the center of the square place a piece of jewelry that you often wear and a piece of jewelry that your lover often wears. If one or neither of you wears jewelry, an article of frequently-worn clothing may be substituted. Please note that for the spell to work if you are substituting clothing for jewelry, the clothing must be clean.
Once the items have been place in the square, crossover the candles, exchanging positions to form an X, as illustrated below:

Once this has been done, extinguish the candles. Remove the items of jewelry or articles of clothing only after all of the candles have all been extinguished.
Wear the items as normal and wait for the adventure to begin!

Roots of Lust
A ritual for increasing the base desire of your lover.
Light a stick or cone of Myrrh incense. Place it on a table. Light two beeswax candles and place them on either side of the incense. Sprinkle a little spring water on your shoulders and then wipe the water off with a clean, white, cotton cloth, such as a handkerchief or washcloth. Lay the damp fabric flat on the table. Pick the fabric up by the two corners nearest you and wave the fabric gently through the smoke from the incense. As you wave the fabric through the incense, speak the following words:



Smoke and fireHeat and flameIn my lover, plant the samePassion?s throes and pleasures meshIn my lover?s heart and fleshBurn deep, burn longSexual desire strong!
When you have spoken the words, take the fabric and rub it over your wrists, neck and ankles.
Extinguish the candles.
Place the fabric under your lover?s mattress or bed.
Dream Lover
A secret spell to bring passion-inciting dreams to your partner? they?ll never know what hit them!



In a small saucepan, add a cup of spring water. Heat the water but do not allow it to boil. Into the hot water, add a pinch of cinnamon, a few dried, hot pepper seeds, a few drops of almond oil and a bay leaf. Simmer the mixture for about ten minutes. Remove from heat and allow to cool. Once completely cooled, strain the mixture through a fine strainer (a nylon or silk stocking works best) into a jar with a lid. Discard the solids and keep only the liquid. Before placing the lid on the jar, recite the following incantation:



Into dreams will passion seepWhile my lover gently sleepsDesires wings will soon take flightTo seek fulfillment in the night



Place the lid on the jar.
The mixture should be sprinkled lightly around the area where your lover sleeps. A few drops on their pillow will work especially well, but remember that it must go undetected.
Note: Always take caution when placing anything next to a person?s body, of which they have no knowledge, that no allergies exist on their part. If any allergies exist to any ingredient in a spell which will require you to place the person near that ingredient, do not use the spell, or seek a viable alternative to the ingredient.

Ritual of Fiery Passion
A steamy ritual used to incite fiery passion in your lover. This ritual should be performed on the eve of a waxing moon. Find a dark quiet place. Light seven beeswax candles and position them to form a circle. In a sock of your lover?s, place the following ingredients:



A pinch of salt A pinch of cinnamon One sweet chestnut A hair of your lover A hair of yours Rice (about ? cup)



Tie the sock closed, hold it in your right hand, and recite the following invocation:
Goddess of Love, Passion and DesireListen now and hear my pleaLight a fire inside of meIn my lover do the sameA passion burning as the flameSeven candles burning brightPassion?s fever fills the nightPassion Goddess hear my pleaFor passion for eternity!
The invocation having been spoken, drop the sock into the center of the circle of flaming candles. Extinguish the candles one-by-one. Hide the filled sock in the room where lovemaking will take place.